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By Sophia Benoit · Launched 3 years ago
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Attention Seeking on the Internet
I had this idea to write this like a letter from an anonymous stranger and then to reply, as I do, with advice. And then at the very end I would reveal that actually, ‘twas I who wrote in to myself. It was all going to be very clever, you understand.
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I'm hung up on a guy I went on three dates with.
Since we work on the same campus, I figured staying friendly would be the wise thing to do.
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Dec 7, 2021
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I'm hung up on a guy I went on three dates with.
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Substack Vacation
Not that anyone is freaking out about this or anything, but my substack is taking a little break in November. I’ll be back in December with possibly…
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Nov 11, 2021
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Should I tell my new friends that one of their friends was the other person in my last relationship?
Basically, I either owe him an apology and we hopefully all move on, or if he did know about she and I, then I don't feel like I have much to apologize…
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Oct 18, 2021
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Should I tell my new friends that one of their friends was the other person in my last relationship?
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I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…
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Oct 11, 2021
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I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
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Should I work for an MLM? Is that immoral?
If I take the job, am I a bad person?
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Sep 27, 2021
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Should I work for an MLM? Is that immoral?
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My boyfriend has terrible boundaries with his mom. And we live with her.
At this point, I don’t know what to do. I want to move out and end the relationship but I don’t because we’ve bonded so much and I love him so dearly.
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Sep 20, 2021
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My boyfriend has terrible boundaries with his mom. And we live with her.
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Help! I can't stop crying during conflict.
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…
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Sep 13, 2021
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Help! I can't stop crying during conflict.
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