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My boyfriend isn't taking care of himself.
I don't know how to help my boyfriend without coming off as a dick. Help!
Sophia Benoit
Jan 13, 2020
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My boyfriend isn't taking care of himself.
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I have a crush on my boss!
A TRUE GEM: I'm writing to you because of a weird relationship I have with an old boss. I worked for him as an intern (he was the head of the company…
Sophia Benoit
Jan 6, 2020
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I have a crush on my boss!
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Here's the Thing: You're Not Her (Boy)Friend
Waiting for someone to realize that they're in love with you, that's not friendship.
Sophia Benoit
Jun 21, 2019
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Here's the Thing: You're Not Her (Boy)Friend
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Here's the Thing: You're Dating a Yikes
What constitutes a dealbreaker?
Sophia Benoit
Jul 12, 2019
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Here's the Thing: You're Dating a Yikes
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My partner won't divorce his wife.
My partner's sort-of-ex-wife is still very much a part of his life, and not just in a co-parenting way.
Sophia Benoit
May 19, 2020
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My partner won't divorce his wife.
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Here's the Thing: Stop Cheating
A SWEETIE: Last week, I went out of state with my daughter to go on a camping trip with my family (my wife stayed home). On the last day of the trip…
Sophia Benoit
Aug 19, 2019
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Here's the Thing: Stop Cheating
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I'm 30 and I've Never Been In Love.
I'm so used to living my life without a partner, that it feels like someone would really have to impress me for me to want to insert them into my life.
Sophia Benoit
Jul 26, 2021
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I'm 30 and I've Never Been In Love.
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I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…
Sophia Benoit
Oct 11, 2021
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I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
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Help! I can't get my coworker out of my head.
The sex with my coworker was...electrifying in a way I have never experienced with anyone else and feel like I may never experience again.
Sophia Benoit
May 3, 2021
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Help! I can't get my coworker out of my head.
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My boyfriend doesn't do chores; help!
I totally understand being tired after work and not wanting to clean but then he just never does it and it turns into weeks of me cleaning and him never…
Sophia Benoit
Feb 6, 2020
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This one is about dicks.
Two dicks. Two incredibly similar questions.
Sophia Benoit
Sep 30, 2020
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This one is about dicks.
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How can I help my husband lose weight without being fatphobic?
Should I not intervene and just continue listening to his bodily complaints?
Sophia Benoit
Jun 7, 2021
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How can I help my husband lose weight without being fatphobic?
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