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My boyfriend isn't taking care of himself.
I don't know how to help my boyfriend without coming off as a dick. Help!
Jan 13, 2020 • 
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My boyfriend isn't taking care of himself.
My boyfriend doesn't do chores; help!
I totally understand being tired after work and not wanting to clean but then he just never does it and it turns into weeks of me cleaning and him never…
Feb 6, 2020 • 
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My boyfriend doesn't do chores; help!
I have a crush on my boss!
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Jan 6, 2020 • 
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I have a crush on my boss!
My best friends started dating each other and I'm left out.
Did I fuck this up beyond repair? Do I give them space and stop talking to them? Do I ask if I did something wrong and try to talk about it?
Feb 22, 2021 • 
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My best friends started dating each other and I'm left out.
Help! I can't get my coworker out of my head.
The sex with my coworker was...electrifying in a way I have never experienced with anyone else and feel like I may never experience again.
May 3, 2021 • 
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Help! I can't get my coworker out of my head.
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My ex is having a baby and I can't get over it.
I just can't imagine him as a dad and being responsible for a person for the next 18 years of his life.
Feb 15, 2021 • 
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My ex is having a baby and I can't get over it.
My Guy Friend Keeps Flirting But Doesn't Want a Relationship
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Jan 26, 2023 • 
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My Guy Friend Keeps Flirting But Doesn't Want a Relationship
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I'm having sex dreams about a friend, what do they mean?
It doesn't make any sense personality wise and I'm still not attracted to them. So, what the fuck??
May 24, 2021 • 
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I'm having sex dreams about a friend, what do they mean?
My BF's mom has no boundaries.
His mom can be REALLY manipulative towards him...When I questioned him about it recently, he said "it's not worth the fight with her."
Feb 28, 2020 • 
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My BF's mom has no boundaries.
I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out.
Oct 11, 2021 • 
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I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
I'm 30 and I've Never Been In Love.
I'm so used to living my life without a partner, that it feels like someone would really have to impress me for me to want to insert them into my life.
Jul 26, 2021 • 
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I'm 30 and I've Never Been In Love.
The guy I'm dating is lying about his age, what do I do?
Am I overreacting? Should I just ask him how old he is, and see if he tells me the truth?
Mar 8, 2021 • 
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The guy I'm dating is lying about his age, what do I do?
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