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I'm in a New Relationship, But I Can't Stop Thinking About an Ex
I know I'll be happy and loved with my current boyfriend, but I find myself wondering what it would have been like with Him?
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April 2023
I Had a Miscarriage; Three of My Friends Are Pregnant.
I think a couple of them might have noticed that I'm avoiding them. Should I just let them make their own assumptions about why that is? Should I…
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Sophia Benoit
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Here's the Thing[s]: Part III
A shopping guide by a dumbass.
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Sophia Benoit
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March 2023
Help! I Think I'm Ready To Try Dating?
I am a very late bloomer. I've struggled endlessly with weight and body image issues.
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Sophia Benoit
Here's the Things: Part II
Why the fuck did I do this with Roman numerals the first time?? I'm locked in forever.
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Sophia Benoit
I'm In Love With My Roommate-- Should I Tell Her?
I thought (foolishly) that living with her might help me let go of the feelings, but they only grew stronger.
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Sophia Benoit
February 2023
Here's the Thing[s] Part I
Stuff I love because I actually love stuff, which is bad and immoral of me.
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Sophia Benoit
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My Open Relationship Needs New Boundaries
A SWEETIE, WHOM WE LOVE: I have been in a relationship with my partner for 5 years, since high school. We are both in college now and live about an hour…
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Sophia Benoit
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My Friend Thinks I'm in Love With Her
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…
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Sophia Benoit
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January 2023
My Guy Friend Keeps Flirting But Doesn't Want a Relationship
Some of The Most Classic Stuff
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Sophia Benoit
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December 2022
My Boyfriend is Super Rich But I'm Not
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…
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Sophia Benoit
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It's Time to Dunk on Our Friends
Specifically those people who paid money for the AI Art
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