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Should I not intervene and just continue listening to his bodily complaints?

Jun 7

It doesn't change anything when we're together, but I think about it often when we're not.

May 31

It doesn't make any sense personality wise and I'm still not attracted to them. So, what the fuck??

May 24

Should I pull away to protect myself, bring things up with the potential of losing the friendship or it being something more that I’m not sure I even w…

May 17

Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weir…

May 10

The sex with my coworker was...electrifying in a way I have never experienced with anyone else and feel like I may never experience again.

May 3

Shrek is turning 20 and I’m losing it. Not because the movie is 20 years old; I try not to be one of those people who is like, “How can this thing be t…

Apr 22

I don’t really know how it’s making me feel anymore.

Apr 19

Look, this year has been nuts I'm using this newsletter to be a little h*rny.

Apr 12

How badly am I fucking up? Should I cut my losses or really fight for this?

Apr 5

If I walk away, am I doing the smart, self-protective, mature thing or am I closing myself off to potential love?

Mar 29

Maybe she’s just feeling the same pandemic lethargy as everyone else or she’s mad at me or something else.

Mar 22

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