A BIG SWEETIE PIE: I, a 24-year-old straight girl, have a crush on my very close friend. She is queer and out. I’ve never had romantic feelings for another lady, and this isn’t making me question my sexuality in any existential kind of way. I’m fine with it! It’s fun! But for the last seven or eight months, we’ve been spending a LOT of one-on-one time together, and it’s making me feel feelings.