Here's the Thing: Have a Crush, Have a Baby, Have a Boundary
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SOME SWEETIE OUT THERE: Hi Sophia, I’m a 23 year-old queer individual who cannot stop falling for unavailable older men, more specifically unavailable older male professors of mine. I keep going through this habit of falling for these unattainable men, and then being unable to detach my self-worth from how I think they view me. It’s something I've struggled with for about a decade now, how do I break this cycle? I do objectively think I’m a good person! I’m kind and can sometimes be funny and I work hard! However, if I feel like none of that matters if I don’t feel like these men don’t see it. How can i stop placing so much weight on the opinions of these men? How can I stop falling for the same type that i know will (unintentionally) hurt me?
Here's the Thing: Have a Crush, Have a Baby, Have a Boundary
Here's the Thing: Have a Crush, Have a Baby…
Here's the Thing: Have a Crush, Have a Baby, Have a Boundary
SOME SWEETIE OUT THERE: Hi Sophia, I’m a 23 year-old queer individual who cannot stop falling for unavailable older men, more specifically unavailable older male professors of mine. I keep going through this habit of falling for these unattainable men, and then being unable to detach my self-worth from how I think they view me. It’s something I've struggled with for about a decade now, how do I break this cycle? I do objectively think I’m a good person! I’m kind and can sometimes be funny and I work hard! However, if I feel like none of that matters if I don’t feel like these men don’t see it. How can i stop placing so much weight on the opinions of these men? How can I stop falling for the same type that i know will (unintentionally) hurt me?