Here's the Thing: Letting Go of Friends And Benefits
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A SWEETIE EXTRAORDINARE: So, back in 2015, I started seeing a classmate of mine. We had both just graduated and were going to be in the same city for a bit over a year before moving on to uni. Everything became a bit more serious, I guess, when we would spend almost every day with each other and were sleeping together all the time. I had more or less moved in with her at that point, because of how often I was at hers. We had such great chemistry, and loved spending time together—same sense of humour, same interests, all that shit. I started catching feelings, despite both of us agreeing that it was just a FWB situation, strictly no boyfriend/girlfriend labels—this was made clear before we even started having sex. The first time that we did, though, she asked if she wanted to make it 'exclusive' so that we wouldn't be sleeping with anyone else. I responded saying that kind of defeated the purpose of it being fwb so we agreed no exclusivity. During the course of our year together, the dozen's of times we got drunk together, she said on numerous occasions that she was in love with me. I didn't know whether that was her being for real, or just drunken ramblings.
Here's the Thing: Letting Go of Friends And Benefits
Here's the Thing: Letting Go of Friends And…
Here's the Thing: Letting Go of Friends And Benefits
A SWEETIE EXTRAORDINARE: So, back in 2015, I started seeing a classmate of mine. We had both just graduated and were going to be in the same city for a bit over a year before moving on to uni. Everything became a bit more serious, I guess, when we would spend almost every day with each other and were sleeping together all the time. I had more or less moved in with her at that point, because of how often I was at hers. We had such great chemistry, and loved spending time together—same sense of humour, same interests, all that shit. I started catching feelings, despite both of us agreeing that it was just a FWB situation, strictly no boyfriend/girlfriend labels—this was made clear before we even started having sex. The first time that we did, though, she asked if she wanted to make it 'exclusive' so that we wouldn't be sleeping with anyone else. I responded saying that kind of defeated the purpose of it being fwb so we agreed no exclusivity. During the course of our year together, the dozen's of times we got drunk together, she said on numerous occasions that she was in love with me. I didn't know whether that was her being for real, or just drunken ramblings.