Here's the Thing: Should I break up with my boyfriend?
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A BIG CUTIE PIE: ðŸŒfolks, get ready— its a long one!!!🌠I love my boyfriend—but I'm not sure I should. When we met, we were both hesitant at first to pursue anything, partially because we live several hours apart from one another and partially because we both have had dating histories which were rocky at best. We agreed that we would just see where things went. It quickly became abundantly clear that we were way more compatible than we expected, in pretty much every way. This, of course, turned into serious feelings. I brought it up to him that I felt like we were way past casual, and he agreed. We officially defined the relationship, and it was great. Except, that was the first conversation when I noticed what seemed like reluctance on his end. He asked how he should refer to me, like what would be the appropriate gender neutral term, and expressed discomfort with the word 'partner' because he felt it was too serious. I didn't really think anything of it because, to me, partner does sound rather sober. He was cool with S.O., though, so it was fine. We moved on.
Here's the Thing: Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Here's the Thing: Should I break up with my…
Here's the Thing: Should I break up with my boyfriend?
A BIG CUTIE PIE: ðŸŒfolks, get ready— its a long one!!!🌠I love my boyfriend—but I'm not sure I should. When we met, we were both hesitant at first to pursue anything, partially because we live several hours apart from one another and partially because we both have had dating histories which were rocky at best. We agreed that we would just see where things went. It quickly became abundantly clear that we were way more compatible than we expected, in pretty much every way. This, of course, turned into serious feelings. I brought it up to him that I felt like we were way past casual, and he agreed. We officially defined the relationship, and it was great. Except, that was the first conversation when I noticed what seemed like reluctance on his end. He asked how he should refer to me, like what would be the appropriate gender neutral term, and expressed discomfort with the word 'partner' because he felt it was too serious. I didn't really think anything of it because, to me, partner does sound rather sober. He was cool with S.O., though, so it was fine. We moved on.