How do I deal with my long-distance crush?

A SWEETIE SWEETIE GEM: My question is about a confusing casual long distance thing, but for context - earlier this year I ended a 4 year relationship with my boyfriend. It was a slow weird breakup, but ultimately felt right. Right before him, I was in a long-distance abusive relationship. While in my last relationship I finally accepted I was bi. So after all that and feeling free to explore my sexuality and actively healing my traumas, I wasn't really interested in getting involved with anyone.

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