Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird things that came to my mind that no one is paying me to write about. I can never decide if I should capitalize the “the” in
What about saying: "Look, I have warm feelings for you. I enjoy our times together. What makes you think I'm in love with you? And how do you feel about me?" This would bring the main issues directly out in the open, where you can judge what's going on and decide how best to proceed.