Archive - Here's The Thing

I'm in a New Relationship, But I Can't Stop Thinking About an Ex

I know I'll be happy and loved with my current boyfriend, but I find myself wondering what it would have been like with Him?

Jun 1, 2023 •

April 2023

I Had a Miscarriage; Three of My Friends Are Pregnant.

I think a couple of them might have noticed that I'm avoiding them. Should I just let them make their own assumptions about why that is? Should I…

Apr 21, 2023 •

Here's the Thing[s]: Part III

A shopping guide by a dumbass.

Apr 12, 2023 •

March 2023

Help! I Think I'm Ready To Try Dating?

I am a very late bloomer. I've struggled endlessly with weight and body image issues.

Mar 24, 2023 •

Here's the Things: Part II

Why the fuck did I do this with Roman numerals the first time?? I'm locked in forever.

Mar 16, 2023 •

I'm In Love With My Roommate-- Should I Tell Her?

I thought (foolishly) that living with her might help me let go of the feelings, but they only grew stronger.

Mar 2, 2023 •

February 2023

Here's the Thing[s] Part I

Stuff I love because I actually love stuff, which is bad and immoral of me.

Feb 22, 2023 •

My Open Relationship Needs New Boundaries

A SWEETIE, WHOM WE LOVE: I have been in a relationship with my partner for 5 years, since high school. We are both in college now and live about an hour…

Feb 16, 2023 •

My Friend Thinks I'm in Love With Her

Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…

Feb 9, 2023 •

January 2023

My Guy Friend Keeps Flirting But Doesn't Want a Relationship

Some of The Most Classic Stuff

Jan 26, 2023 •

December 2022

My Boyfriend is Super Rich But I'm Not

Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out. Or I talk about weird…

Dec 8, 2022 •

It's Time to Dunk on Our Friends

Specifically those people who paid money for the AI Art

Dec 5, 2022 •

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